ya i agree wit u da.
"When one door of happiness closes, another opens; but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one which has been opened for us."
when smthg bad happen, let s try get da positiv thing from it. u remember da famous chinese sign the ying and the yang. ela ketta visiyatilum oru nanmai iruku, ela nalla visiyatila oru ketta visiyam irundu tan agum! so thing abt it and beware also!